太认真还是有一些问题

看完觉得LZ还是要注意一下啊 太要强的孩子往往经受不住打击

其实我也不希望自己的孩子太要强，这样他以后的路会比较累，常常因为太要强而经历很多挫败，然后被放大化，这样太累的。

是不是lz之前有灌输一些不对或者是让她急功近利的思想啊？有些是好的，有些就感觉不对了，这样太抹杀孩子的快乐童年了

是优点也是缺点。毕竟小孩还小，家长好好引导。

8这确实是一个问题哦

孩子放养好，顺其自然了

看到很多MM在不明白孩子的性格特点，表达了跟自己的期望值相抵触，在这里非说不可。

人的性格大体分为9种，科学上有个学科叫《九型人格》，它是一个描绘人类先天性的全面系统。每个性格的天生敏感神经都不同，性格是天生的，先天+后天=今天，每个性格都有各自的欲望和恐惧，行为和思想都是围绕这些欲望和恐惧去进行的，学习了你就不会那么懊恼，期望孩子像其他人一样了。孩子的性格在7岁的时候，大概就能看出是什么号码了，我小叔的女儿2岁多，我们就看出她是一个8号性格，我女儿是6号。6号喜欢粘人没安全感，我总不能期望她很主动地去争取第一名吧，她是不会的。

不学无术。喜欢可以在广州参加一些学习9性人格的课堂，凌一学堂是我现在一直在学的，愿与大家共勉，有兴趣可以短我，不HARDSELL

小孩处处争第一很可能是要吸引大人的注意而已，家长平时需要给多些时间陪小孩，让她知道不需要争第一也能得到爱和关注~

沟通······

给她讲讲吧。

长大了小宝贝就会改变一些吧

在孩子中总会有那么几个是性格或多或少有些许问题的,搂住的孩子还小,多和老师沟通在幼儿园的情况,多关心孩子的日常行为,在发生问题时给予正确的引导,会慢慢改善的.......

唉。。这叫我怎么办。我平时都是由着她发展。唉。。难办啊

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最好找到一些可以培养孩子性格的故事给她听，还是能有用的。我也在寻找中。

不要压力太大了

现在的小孩，主要是要培养他们的耐挫能力吧。如果从小就什么都百依百顺，对以后是不利的。幼儿园阶段应该是无忧无虑，充满开心快乐的。我反对某些幼儿园各种各样的比赛，孩子应该是重在参与吧，在玩中学到东西就行了。如果把输赢看得很重，会活的很累呀~