很能理解楼主的感受,很认同一句话:she can live without me, so can I; but if someday we meet, that is wonderful。现实总是纠结的,千丝万缕的,无法绝对的说该怎么怎么做。只有赠楼主一句:一切顺其自然。很关心后续发展,会关注这个帖子,楼主一定要继续写下去哈。